(08-15-2015 7:29 AM)RTBoss Wrote: What about a wedding ring...to fill the slot? I'm married, and never have problem with a ring on.
Yeah man most definitely. Objects like wedding rings are highly symbolic and allow auto assumption of answers rather than just asking. It checks alot of boxes on the survey before the questions even start. A wedding ring says you have all the boxes already checked. Add the "forbidden fruit" aspect and attraction will be initially very very high from lady suitor.
Cops might get you in invisible trouble with wifey over time tho.
Ill try to make an example.
Hypothetically if you were to begin an affair after having attracted a female.
Questions would most likely be minimal at first as all the critical questions would be answered by your ring finger. Your wife would fill the place that cops would create. The sidecreep not wanting to bring up homelife, would focus on your meat and potatoes during dates. What makes you tick and alot of physical play to avoid the emotional. Over time she will become more emotionally dependent and begin to overcompensate the lack of emotion in the beginning.
See how this would differ from a typical first date where she would be grilling you about how goodguy you are? Many questions already answered and you are already prequalified.
This is just a scenario and could go deeper and in diff directions.
(08-15-2015 8:41 AM)SuperJoy Wrote: Im not sure I totally follow...
If you are a normal good looking guy that hold himself well, why would it be unbelievable that you got laid? Or are you saying they might think you got laid but seem like a player?
You can come off as "too social" ie being a player especially if you are seen often in groups or rarely alone. This is the opp side of the spectra from lonely creeper. Instead of questions you get gossiped on. You are not the lonely guy, yoiu are the guy with too many friends and they do not want to be just another notch.
This gossip is defensive so they can signal to all the other females your "intentions". Steering comes into play here and you never know the road conditions.
Its like a spooked doe raising her tail so you can see the white. This is a similar alarm mechanism. You can have genuine intentions of developing a legit friendship but the alarm will still be raised by the broken dolls and motherhens who are going to make you pay for all the men who hurt them or their friends in the past. You are coming off too social and they are putting you on the radar.
Point about cops is you get alot of questions over time while wearing it that do not seem to fit in to the normal time based effects we are used to seeing with mones. Cops are a bit like wearing scratches on your back. Its wise to have a good escape hatch ready if things go wrong. Lol
Ive also noticed cops tend to have an effect on the imaginations of people especially over time. The steering part is how the questions/slots are being addressed and what once was imagination/gossip is now tangible.
This inquisition occurs with any new friendship or relationship but cops do seem to enhance the curiosity a bit more. Sometimes alot more and it can get annoying especially later down the road.
Cops moreso than any other mone I have worn has generated the most initial imprinting I have seen. Perhaps this sets the stage for memory processes in the future or the groundwork is being poured from that point. Im still unbiased on this part still as it takes time to notice this stuff.
It is this early part of the forming friendship and cop interactions that interests me most. First impressions are important and currently having cops on may or may not signal who you are. Hence the questions to determine.
Nothing out there I have seen has made a chick whip out a pen and paper and start taking notes like copulins. Double edged sword here.
This can be good in the beginning of the relationship as she is getting to know you and that competition aspect of cops comes in. As she forms feelings over time, these questions become less innocent and border accusation even when you are not doing anything wrong.
When used, cop effects will begin to turn a corner at some point in the friendship. After some time you must get used to the eventual alignment change and steer appropriately.
Steering aside, I want to know exactly the mechanism at work here. So Im revisiting cops in effort to better understand what effects are coming from user and what is coming from chemical.