I thought it might be too. He isn't gay though. He doesn't watch porn. So I also thought it must be testosterone but he gets full erections and has no trouble with it (the morning wood) I know he prioritises his sleep (looovessss sleeping). Essence of Woman should increase testosterone levels by 150% though right? ugh this is so frustrating. It doesn't have much of an effect on him he is just more... Smiley. Oh and after we had the argument where he said he isn't attracted to me, two days later we had intercourse four times in three days....... That's is a MASSIVE difference I was thoroughly shocked because I didn't do anything different.

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(05-15-2017 5:31 PM)Spider-mone Wrote:  how was the sex before you had a child?

he was obviously attracted to you at some point so what has changed?

he could have an underlying medical issue that causes low libido or he has a lying issue!

could there be someone else in the picture? there's an old saying .... if you're not having sex with your husband ... someone else usually is!

Well it was better than it is now but still wasnt.... I don't know the best it could be I guess??? I do think he has a lower libido than me. Puh I'm like a raging furnace

(05-15-2017 5:32 PM)Hudzickleslush Wrote:  I thought it might be too. He isn't gay though. He doesn't watch porn. So I also thought it must be testosterone but he gets full erections and has no trouble with it (the morning wood) I know he prioritises his sleep (looovessss sleeping). Essence of Woman should increase testosterone levels by 150% though right? ugh this is so frustrating. It doesn't have much of an effect on him he is just more... Smiley. Oh and after we had the argument where he said he isn't attracted to me, two days later we had intercourse four times in three days....... That's is a MASSIVE difference I was thoroughly shocked because I didn't do anything different.

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Well it was better than it is now but still wasnt.... I don't know the best it could be I guess??? I do think he has a lower libido than me. Puh I'm like a raging furnace

Erections from sexual attraction and morning wood are not necessarily related, but if he can get hard quickly with you, then there's probably no issue.

It honestly sounds like he's just not into you physically any longer, which would make me wonder about other women...........harsh, but the possibilities are pretty limited here.

Have you gained any weight, or made any changes with yourself lately?

(05-15-2017 5:44 PM)theLaw Wrote:  Erections from sexual attraction and morning wood are not necessarily related, but if he can get hard quickly with you, then there's probably no issue.

It honestly sounds like he's just not into you physically any longer, which would make me wonder about other women...........harsh, but the possibilities are pretty limited here.

Have you gained any weight, or made any changes with yourself lately?

I have actually lost weight.... I am a little... Uh muscley. I think im not feminine and soft (personality wise), my hips are... Shapely, I just have no breasts. I know he isn't with any other woman he used to look at boobs on Google.... Agggges ago I am addressing that matter separately though. Are there really no pheromones that could help?

(05-15-2017 5:59 PM)Hudzickleslush Wrote:  I have actually lost weight.... I am a little... Uh muscley. I think im not feminine and soft (personality wise), my hips are... Shapely, I just have no breasts. I know he isn't with any other woman he used to look at boobs on Google.... Agggges ago I am addressing that matter separately though. Are there really no pheromones that could help?

Check out the DiscoverXS forum. There are many more chicks on there.

If you want to make him horny, Dirty Primitive from LAL is copulins (pussy juice, what's in Essence of Woman ) and androstenone (https://houseofpheromones.com/human-pher...lecules/). Androstenone does make me horny. Put it on him, idk how it'll be like if you wear it.

Max T-150 is a $10 chapstick tube meant to increase testosterone. It does make me hornier and give me more energy. He'll have to be willing to try it himself.

Bad Wolf, this makes me horny. It smells fresh and nice. You can request it in a spray bottle so it is more cologne like the pheromone like to him.

support@pheromonesperfumeandcologne.com

Liquid Alchemy Labs makes those two. You'll need to email them and ask about how to get them since I think their credit card processor is not working currently. Those two are mens pheromones that might make him horny.

Liquid Alchemy Labs recently released Alpha Q, a mens sexual status pheromone. They also released N'D'MOOD for women at the same time. I haven't seen any reports on it. Liquid Alchemy has made great formulas in the past, so I bought Alpha Q with trust. If you get it, the forum could use some reports on it. You can buy it from their partners site, http://s1ckjewelry.com/product/n-d-mood/ I used the site to buy mine and got it.

There are way more chicks at DiscoverXS from what I see. Check out that forum.

https://discoverxs.com/

(05-15-2017 5:59 PM)Hudzickleslush Wrote:  I have actually lost weight.... I am a little... Uh muscley. I think im not feminine and soft (personality wise), my hips are... Shapely, I just have no breasts. I know he isn't with any other woman he used to look at boobs on Google.... Agggges ago I am addressing that matter separately though. Are there really no pheromones that could help?

BickDickBandit has some excellent suggestions, just don't be surprised when something comes out of left field...........there's still something missing with this story.

Best of luck!

(05-15-2017 5:59 PM)Hudzickleslush Wrote:  Are there really no pheromones that could help?

if he's admitted that he's not physically attracted to you then I might suggest Nude for the beautifying effect. sounds like you need something that's going to make you more attractive in his eyes rather than trying to get him horny. he might be horny and just can't get past the fact that he's not physically attracted.

Thank you for all your suggestions I will try them.

Wow, we're now on the the 3rd page and although I may have missed it skimming through, I didn't see anybody actually trying to tell this girl HOW to use mones and that you just can't put them on and expect magical results.

Hudzickleslush, keep up with the Essence of Woman , but don't expect it to do everything for you, put on a couple of drops, wear something sexy or at least show him that your making an effort, maybe initiate some touching, bat your eyes at him a bit, whatever, just do something to get his attention and a reason for the Essence of Woman to cause a reaction.

And, best of luck!

(05-15-2017 7:03 PM)mark-in-dallas Wrote:  Wow, we're now on the the 3rd page and although I may have missed it skimming through, I didn't see anybody actually trying to tell this girl HOW to use mones and that you just can't spray them on and expect magical results.

Hudzickleslush, keep up with the Essence of Woman , but don't expect it to do everything for you, put on a couple of drops, wear something sexy or at least show him that your making an effort, maybe initiate some touching, bat your eyes at him a bit, whatever, just do something to get his attention and a reason for the Essence of Woman to cause a reaction.

And, best of luck!

Hehe thank you. Really

Your boobs aren't the issue.

If dressing sexy doesn't work, dress slutty. Follow the pheromone suggestions above. Wake him up with a blowjob since morning wood isn't a problem. Talk slutty. Share a fantasy with him. Roleplay something with him.

Also, take a hard look at what else might be killing his sex drive. Are you being kind to him, as a rule? Is he happy taking care of the child? Is he missing out on a career ambition of his own?