(07-26-2012 7:02 PM)ink_spider Wrote:  I am truly conflicted because I trust you, as you have experience. I just truly can't imagine having any secrets from my boyfriend of 3 years. If things work out, we may get married eventually... and he'd be my husband. Having secrets from my husband sounds horrible to me. Could I live with myself?

I am not trying to be unappreciative or ungrateful. I am just in a moral dilemma. Ya know what I mean?

My BF is amazing. He is loving and friendly and appreciative. He has a problem with alcohol and he's working on it. He keeps me 100% updated and in the loop so that I can help him. He trusts me 100%, and I do the same. Having secrets is something we decided, at the beginning, never to do. We want 100% TRUST in our relationship. So, that's why I am concerned about this.

Trust me, I want this to work and I do not want him to feel manipulated. I don't think he will though. He said he likes when I go out of my way to get sexy for him. So, this is just a higher-end version of getting gussied up, right? I don't hide my lipstick or lingerie. In fact, he often likes to pick out which one I wear. So, maybe he'll eventually start buying me mones. Haha.

I don't think he'll have any interest in using them himself. He doesn't like to wear colognes or sprays. I've offered to buy him cologne before, but he's so uninterested, but he does like when I smell nice. He always smells nice on his own. He uses Irish Spring soap and Degee deodorant. He smells clean and great always!

Anyhow, I'll keep thinking about this and I'll keep you all updated with results and decisions. I do want other newbies to learn from my experiences... good and bad.

Hi Ink,

You know him better then we do. It's your life and we can't live it for you. I hope everything works like a charm as we all do. Life has just made us sceptics and cynical. By the way True Pheromones sales PURE COPS for really cheap in a nice little mini bottle with a bulb dropper top. It's great for keeping in your purse. It's much smaller thAN a vile of lipstick.

http://www.truepheromones.com/pheromones...omen-p-229

Normally if you buy their other products they throw that in for free. Best of Luck!

Does Pure Cops have the same smell as Essence of Woman where you need to dry down for 20? I am interested...

(07-26-2012 7:21 PM)ink_spider Wrote:  Does Pure Cops have the same smell as Essence of Woman where you need to dry down for 20? I am interested...

Pure Cops = Pure Stink as it's concentrated meaning you need less of it. You would let it dry down then cover with whatever perfume you prefer.

Alpha Dream's new Light Cops is reported to have no stink and to be very effective. It has been introduced at a very low price, and Saturday, Alpha Dream is starting their 20% off summer sale. On a side note, Alpha Dream kicks ass.

(07-26-2012 7:57 PM)AlternativeGirl Wrote:  Alpha Dream's new Light Cops is reported to have no stink and to be very effective.

How does that work? I thought cops was supposed to be scent based rather than pheromonal, supposedly? I could be wrong, of course. There's no product floating around these boards that I know less about.

I'm not a lady but just to contribute to your question.

Back when I started with AD products the stickers on the 'togo' bottles speaks for it self. It would say 'ammo' make women fall for you etc etc. A314 -trust and respect. At first my siblings just cracked up them selves laughing, some are big skeptics and others are all natural saying they don't rely on such silly things, 100% of it is on you. Fair point.

So one of my attempts to hiidng it was using some of my old insect repellant sprays. I had to have very good patience for this one because there were some aspects that could affect the pheromones. Like difference between the amount of spray the bottles had in them, making sure the bottle is absolutely clean as possible to not make any contamination etc etc.

After all that, it didn't even occur to me that I could of just removed the stickers on them *face palm* They were only 5ml bottles and are very easy to carry around, hide and store it in. They can fit in your pocket, pencil case, glass case etc. To describe it's structure, it's like a tanpon. So very versatile for anything you'd want to do with it .

Now i fill it up with pheromones that i bought with other companies because sometimes the 30ml bottles are to difficult for me to carry around in my pocket.

As for my privacy with my pheromones with family and friends. I share it around to some I trust, usually they've become my pheromone partners now. Although some I haven't told was just the simplicity of why would they need to know, it's not like they asked and some aren't even interested at all.

(07-26-2012 11:24 PM)wiserd Wrote:  How does that work? I thought cops was supposed to be scent based rather than pheromonal, supposedly? I could be wrong, of course. There's no product floating around these boards that I know less about.

I understand it's a scent based thing as well Wiserd. Here's the thing - Chris's cops still smell like cops but they smell different.

I am trying to think of a good way to describe it.

Ok - If Essence Of Woman in Oil is often compared to cheese - think of it as a Taleggio. You unwrap that Taleggio and it 's a *BIG PIECE* EVERYBODY in your house is going WTH is that smell, who's shoes need to been thrown out, and for the love of God who fed what to the dog?! Essence of Woman works on itty bitty pieces of cheese scale.

Chris's Cops are still a cheese - and your brain still registers cheese. But somehow he did something so the whole "hunt the horrible smell" effect of Tallegio is gone. Instead you have a yummy Brie.

I can't figure out a better way to describe it.

Now I totally want cheese

(07-27-2012 9:13 AM)AlternativeGirl Wrote:  Now I totally want cheese

I'm sure there are plenty of guys who would be happy to give you a "big piece." ;-)

I bought the wife some mones and she knows about mine, no need to hide them. But if I did, I would either get a nice fat book and hollow it out, or if your really sneaky, buy a large and deep picture frame, put hinges on it and hollow out the back and add little shelves to it lol. Also can look online for common bath/household items with a secret compartment. There is tons of them!