RE: Personality and Pheromone Susceptability
02-17-2015 8:31 PM
OK, i'm an avid fan and research the MBTI alot.
BUT....
There is another dimension to people that I've just been made aware of (not that there aren't tons of other dimensions to people, I knew that). Attachment theory divides people up into categories that are somewhat related but not really related to MBTI. It shows how people function in close relationships, but not personality in general.
Attachment theory divides people into categories:
1. Secure (60%)
2. Anxious/Preoccupied (20%)
3. Avoidant/Dismissive (25%)
4. Fearful Avoidant (aka Anxious Avoidant) (5%)
Essentially, most people fall into categories 1-3, with 4 being rare and you don't want to be 4.
Category 1 is a emotionally healthy person who you would want to date/marry. They are rare in the over age 30 dating population because they already have a healthy relationship and it is probably solid and they don't need to look.
Category 2 is a needy/clingy person who will become anxious and more needy/clingy if they don't get positive feedback from their significant other in close relationships. They will mistake the feelings of anxiety for love. Because of this, they are the only ones who will chase after a Category 3 type, who will retreat from attention.
Category 3 is a person who will dissociate. If they don't get positive feedback they will distance themselves emotionally from their significant other. Category 3 makes up the largest % of the over age 30 dating population as they are less likely to be in a long term relationship, and more likely to be divorced, multiple times. They may NEVER feel true passionate love type feelings in their entire life. They prefer casual sex to intimate sex because they have intimacy problems. They want to feel INDEPENDANT, and fear a relationship when things get close enough to rely on the other person.
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