What are your thoughts on talking to your partner DURING sex? I had a partner I did a few times tell me she thought I was a little crazy because I would talk to her as I was fucking her..

She told me she thought during sex one should focus on the pleasure of the act.

Yet when making love I thought expressing your emotions about your girl is a positive thing.

Is it normal this can ruin the sex act and should be saved for once sex is over?

If talking is advisable what type of phrases do you use? Gentle compliments, horny moans along with compliments etc

Ihave fairly low T so I can act very well when screwing either choosing to talk or to shut up and screw.

Come on, D! It's ALWAYS advisable to ASK YOUR PARTNER WHAT SHE LIKES.

(02-06-2014 8:45 PM)MMM Wrote:  Come on, D! It's ALWAYS advisable to ASK YOUR PARTNER WHAT SHE LIKES.

Yes now I know with her no talking.

But with a different woman i'm in the process of building up to a screw I guess I'll have to ask her.

Feels awkward asking questions like that before sex..I mean especially with a new partner..Once you're doing her a few times you can ask what she likes.

The first 1 -2 times should be explosive and all out animal attraction both people doing/acting as they please.

Then later once the lust is calming down and you both can think more clearly you can ask more intimate questions on what turns her on... i.e. getting to master sex with the particular woman.

Also some women like to please men. They feel awkward being asked what turns them on.. Some feel Like sluts if asked.
So it really depends..

Other women are all about communicating sexually and will even tell you how to eat them out.

Depends on the woman.

Live and learn I guess.

It's only awkward IF YOU THINK it is. COMMUNICATION is key. No matter what people tell you.

(02-06-2014 9:27 PM)MMM Wrote:  It's only awkward IF YOU THINK it is. COMMUNICATION is key. No matter what people tell you.

I totally agree. I've been with women who didn't want any talking (even when it came to finding out what was working/wasn't working) and it was never as fun as when we could communicate.

Depends on the partner and the mood. When in a goofier more laid back fun mood talking can be A-ok.

Since I was primarily using NA glace I thought hey this is about making love. And during making love talking should be ok.

Depending on the mone and the mood set prior for the night it will lead up to whether talking is good during sex.

For example screwing an milf with New Pheromone Additive on is going to be one hell of a lusty ride.

On the other hand using NA glace and doing a younger girl who doesn't have much sexual experience may set the mood up more for making love.

How many of you think the mones you wear can set the mood up for the right kind of sex? How many of you used New Pheromone Additive to find out your woman wants to be cuddled and talked to, and NA to find out your woman wants wild fucking? I means its pretty polar opposites.

I was wearing NA IS Glace when I fucked her.. She wanted to go hard.. No talking. Dead silence.

In her words "How can I enjoy sex if you keep interrupting me dsouza?" LOL!

NOTHING IS GUARANTEED. So, you're gonna just have to do what's required, Mister! LISTEN, PAY ATTENTION, LEARN YOUR PARTNER, and/or ASK.

I think you spend too much time on wondering WHY THINGS WORK, when you should be spending time on HOW THINGS WORK.

COMMUNICATION is the LAW OF THE LAND, and EVERYBODY has an opinion, but not everybody's opinion is right.

SEXING, on my planet, requires -none.

FUN, on my planet, requires -nol.

Such an easy set up. Just gotta figure out what pushes my partner/s to the edge, so I can lovingly push her over! and over! and over! and over!

I don't think I've ever gone through a whole act without some talking. Sometimes I even joke around and make the girl laugh.
I don't mean going "A muslim, a jew and a christian go into a bar..." but making some funny remark to make her giggle just a little bit.
Not even one has complained or shown any sign of being displeased during nor after.

If she doesn't like talking, then maybe its time to go straight New Pheromone Additive. Only make the occasional grunt. Play rough. She might ruin your mattress though if you don't have a cover.

Or if she's the sensual type and NA is her thing maybe just long intense eye contact.