What are your thoughts on talking to your partner DURING sex? I had a partner I did a few times tell me she thought I was a little crazy because I would talk to her as I was fucking her..

She told me she thought during sex one should focus on the pleasure of the act.

Yet when making love I thought expressing your emotions about your girl is a positive thing.

Is it normal this can ruin the sex act and should be saved for once sex is over?

If talking is advisable what type of phrases do you use? Gentle compliments, horny moans along with compliments etc

Ihave fairly low T so I can act very well when screwing either choosing to talk or to shut up and screw.