There's a lot of articles on google describing this but many are so different from each other its hard to really follow one fully.. Its better to stick to some tried and true principles..

I wonder if we can make some generalizations that pertain to just about all women:

a) stimulate the clitoris.. Some women like their lips stimulated more than the clitoris in terms of licking, some like both, some like mostly clitoris.. I was wondering what your double attack method is to cover all bases.. I'm not into doing the alphabet on a womans clitoris.. Its too tongue tiring.. I figure straight up and down licks and side to side licks. and circles for the clitoris. A method to the madness or just change it up ? Whats your take?

b) stimulate the lips of the vagina.. Now you'll need to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously.. Too much neglect of that area and she may not orgasm.. So do you guys use your hands on the lips to part them touch them rub them, or do you lick there too? If you do what type of licks to cover such a huge area? long st Bernard licks? Some women like to be finger fucked while being given oral.. Do you find most women are opposed or like this or that it takes away from intercourse later? I was always taught to finger fuck while clit licking.

c) How many of you like to squeeze her butt the whole time your giving oral.. Lots of nerve endings there too.

d) Making sounds of approval.. Its good to moan like you are enjoying yourself so she doesn't think she smells bad down there or something.. If you don't talk you have to show approval someway so moaning is good.


e) ORDER. Knowing when to go down there.. Most women unlike porn stars, like to be kissed first, then after that they'll guide you to boobs, then after that you can kiss and lick their stomach, then go down to their thighs kissing it and lickng it, and finally move in for the pussy. If you rush to the boob or pussy first she may not get wet very easily or get upset.. So its kissing then to boobs, if she doesn't like boobs , back to kissing, then she'll lead you there, and so on until you get to oral sex.

f) how long do you go for? A woman may need a few minutes to come or may be multi orgasmic and need 30.. Lots of tired tongues here. I think a key point is to make her comfortable.. If shes COMFORTABLE shes more likely to enjoy relaxing and guiding you so you know what she likes anyways instead of just figuring it out on your own.

Any points you'd like to change or add..???

I think I've always been better at oral sex than intercourse... to me intercourse is like the grand finale not the game.

You kiss that? Too much stimulation. An old gf got so stimulated after I wend down on her. Tired so put her on top. When she is ready to cum again she likes to crawl up on me and squirt her pussy into my mouth. I remember many of times looking up at her labia above my face, that baby is going to squirt at any moment.. Then it happens, what you do with all that all over you? Then she gets off the bed and falls down because she can't support herself (5'4 105 lbs)

I prefer to be selfish in bed and not have my face squirted all over.

Buyer beware

I guess I got a facial

I like the alphabet or my name or her name or something.

When she gives out squeals or hollas, I keep the part of the pattern I licked when she howled.

Also, sticking finger in vagina with a come hither motion stimulates the g spot. Some like it in and out or side to side, but try keeping the finger curl in there too to or in some other way stimulate that spongy place while you work tongue magic.

She will come a time or two or three. Then she will let you know she is ready for something else.

(01-17-2014 4:24 PM)dsouza Wrote:  There's a lot of articles on google describing this but many are so different from each other its hard to really follow one fully.. Its better to stick to some tried and true principles..

I wonder if we can make some generalizations that pertain to just about all women:

a) stimulate the clitoris.. Some women like their lips stimulated more than the clitoris in terms of licking, some like both, some like mostly clitoris.. I was wondering what your double attack method is to cover all bases.. I'm not into doing the alphabet on a womans clitoris.. Its too tongue tiring.. I figure straight up and down licks and side to side licks. and circles for the clitoris. A method to the madness or just change it up ? Whats your take?

b) stimulate the lips of the vagina.. Now you'll need to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously.. Too much neglect of that area and she may not orgasm.. So do you guys use your hands on the lips to part them touch them rub them, or do you lick there too? If you do what type of licks to cover such a huge area? long st Bernard licks? Some women like to be finger fucked while being given oral.. Do you find most women are opposed or like this or that it takes away from intercourse later? I was always taught to finger fuck while clit licking.

c) How many of you like to squeeze her butt the whole time your giving oral.. Lots of nerve endings there too.

d) Making sounds of approval.. Its good to moan like you are enjoying yourself so she doesn't think she smells bad down there or something.. If you don't talk you have to show approval someway so moaning is good.


e) ORDER. Knowing when to go down there.. Most women unlike porn stars, like to be kissed first, then after that they'll guide you to boobs, then after that you can kiss and lick their stomach, then go down to their thighs kissing it and lickng it, and finally move in for the pussy. If you rush to the boob or pussy first she may not get wet very easily or get upset.. So its kissing then to boobs, if she doesn't like boobs , back to kissing, then she'll lead you there, and so on until you get to oral sex.

f) how long do you go for? A woman may need a few minutes to come or may be multi orgasmic and need 30.. Lots of tired tongues here. I think a key point is to make her comfortable.. If shes COMFORTABLE shes more likely to enjoy relaxing and guiding you so you know what she likes anyways instead of just figuring it out on your own.

Any points you'd like to change or add..???

I think I've always been better at oral sex than intercourse... to me intercourse is like the grand finale not the game.

(01-17-2014 5:55 PM)doctordonald Wrote:  I like the alphabet or my name or her name or something.

When she gives out squeals or hollas, I keep the part of the pattern I licked when she howled.

Also, sticking finger in vagina with a come hither motion stimulates the g spot. Some like it in and out or side to side, but try keeping the finger curl in there too to or in some other way stimulate that spongy place while you work tongue magic.

She will come a time or two or three. Then she will let you know she is ready for something else.

Some good multitasking there. Do you only focus on the clitoris and finger in vagina or do you lick the lips of vagina too? I like to think even more multitasking is in order.. spell a name or pattern till she moans, finger her with a come hither motion to stimulate g spot with one hand, and squeeze her ass with the other... All together that should be plenty of constant stimulation.

I think i'll try that out tonight and she how it goes.

(01-17-2014 6:25 PM)dsouza Wrote:  Some good multitasking there. Do you only focus on the clitoris and finger in vagina or do you lick the lips of vagina too? I like to think even more multitasking is in order.. spell a name or pattern till she moans, finger her with a come hither motion to stimulate g spot with one hand, and squeeze her ass with the other... All together that should be plenty of constant stimulation.

I think i'll try that out tonight and she how it goes.

I usually focus on clit. However, now that you mention it, heh. Of course, ass squeeze/play is good. Using other hand to roll or pinch nipples is good. (wetting finger for this is good)

Variety of tools used and places stimulated + lick rhythm have always done it for me. If you give good enough head, she will keep you around longer even if there is not that much chemistry or whatever. Guess many guys don't know how or don't like doing it.

Lick it like you love it! And when she lovingly falls over the edge, keep the same pace no matter how much your brain says "ATTACK!"

Alphabets, Alphabets backwards, numbers all the way up to 1000, love notes, clock-wise and counter clock-wise clitoral circles, suck the hood on the clit deep into your mouth and hum your favorite tune, get on one side and give her butterfly flicks, puppy licks: long and loving, cat licks: short and loving, snake licks: quick, soft and loving, suck the surrounding flesh of the clit deep into your mouth and release, the male version of a blow job: suck her clit like you ewwww! could be sucking a cock, and the list is long.

Read all you want, and as you test what you've discovered, make sure you UNDERSTAND that some female spots differ: LISTEN TO HER BODY.

Before I get naked, I get it in writing, "I HEREBY AUTHORIZE THE MMM TO FEAST ON MY DELICIOUSNESS FOR AT LEAST AN HOUR!" My kind of viagra!

(01-18-2014 5:36 PM)MMM Wrote:  Lick it like you love it! And when she lovingly falls over the edge, keep the same pace no matter how much your brain says "ATTACK!"

Alphabets, Alphabets backwards, numbers all the way up to 1000, love notes, clock-wise and counter clock-wise clitoral circles, suck the hood on the clit deep into your mouth and hum your favorite tune, get on one side and give her butterfly flicks, puppy licks: long and loving, cat licks: short and loving, snake licks: quick, soft and loving, suck the surrounding flesh of the clit deep into your mouth and release, the male version of a blow job: suck her clit like you ewwww! could be sucking a cock, and the list is long.

Read all you want, and as you test what you've discovered, make sure you UNDERSTAND that some female spots differ: LISTEN TO HER BODY.

Before I get naked, I get it in writing, "I HEREBY AUTHORIZE THE MMM TO FEAST ON MY DELICIOUSNESS FOR AT LEAST AN HOUR!" My kind of viagra!

My friend MMM you have some serious fetish issues going on with oral sex.. The way you describe it sounds an addtiction.. LOL... you must be a pro at it..

I don't mind giving oral sex and in fact today I did just that.. I tried the alphabet, different strokes, circles etc but not a moan out of her.. I don't know why.. Maybe I was not hitting the clitoris right.. I don't know its been a long time since I had a partner (1 year) and just twice iven her oral.. I was licking the top of the clitoris. After it was over she told me I should go lower next time.. Do you lick the entire clitoris hood or just the clit? Also I pulled back the hood to reveal the small clit and went on it. she seemed to like me using my finger giving her "come hither" motions better than oral. She says she likes oral but likes the finger better. I felt disgusted trying to lick the entire cunt.. I just licked the clit. Maybe that is why she didn't come.. I don't know licking an entire cunt that's wet isn't something I look forward to.. The best part to me is the bang,which I did well and good after that.. Yeah some nice doggy style, can't beat that.

Yes, I'm addicted to, excuse me ladies, female cum; but actually, I'm a GIVER. I get off getting my lover off, and sucking on her HOODED PACIFIER is just my game!!!

There is so much in learning your partners body, D. You can cut through the chase by ASKING how she likes to be feasted upon, or you can take your time and discover it as you take that delicious journey. I lick EVERYTHING. All clits are not the same. Some like direct clit stimulation, some like you stimulating the clit through its hood, some like you just running your tongue around its opening, some like the hood being stimulated by way of sucking the out lips. Some like feathery touches, and some like the more firmer touches. LICK AND LEARN MY FRIEND.

I believe in the RULE OF THREE: Three orgasms before penetration. The most sensitive part of the clit is just to the right of it. I have no idea of how to explain it to you, but I will try. If you take your tongue tip and go inside the hood on the right side, and run your tongue back and forth like you were trying to scrap the bottom off it's a killer. Difficult to explain it.

Or!

With her laying down on her back, straddle her right leg (facing you), take two fingers and press it against her perennial, and lip upwards across the clit from right to left, it will give her one very powerful orgasm, and you're feel in those two fingers when you're doing it right. Her perennial will flex more and more the close she gets to an orgasm. Difficult to explain it.

Or!

You can ask her to masturbate against your lips and tongue tip, and remember what she does, and how she does it, IF she can let go and handle such a task. I live my lips and tongue tip being used in such a mentally stimulating task!

Or!

You can ask her if she gets off while being served oral, ask her to guide you, and keep notes. Don't ever assume. And you're still a MAN if you ask.

And!

Sucking and nibbling and flicking your tongue across the tips of her nipples and softly biting her nipples from the base up to its tips ALL while fingering her clit at the same time, has been known to drive a woman nuts!!! And some will even thank you!

Discussed by licking everything!?!?!?! Your grade for PUSSY EATING: 'F'

A man who doesn't like licking pussy, or can't give to a woman, will be lonely before too long, or someone else who cares enough will lick his way into her life if he finds out she's not getting eaten out thoroughly. There are women who do NOT like it, but I've only run into two in my whole life. And before you ask, NO! THERE IS NO PUSSY EATING MONES. *smh*

THE END.

The comment that she will keep you around longer if you do this,perhaps but to her you may be a supplicating pussy licker. Do a great job and put it out sparingly when she cooks the best diner. You will be amazed at what she will do to get some more.

I just tell the gals that she made me feel special so I made her cum hard.
You heard of Pavlovs dog. Well just like that. Having that skill and enjoying it is your ace card.

(01-19-2014 12:07 PM)Fishdude Wrote:  The comment that she will keep you around longer if you do this,perhaps but to her you may be a supplicating pussy licker. Do a great job and put it out sparingly when she cooks the best diner. You will be amazed at what she will do to get some more.

I just tell the gals that she made me feel special so I made her cum hard.
You heard of Pavlovs dog. Well just like that. Having that skill and enjoying it is your ace card.

My comment was simply to indicate the power of giving good head. I have known women who felt no connection with the guy, but told me frankly that they didn't want to lose contact because he gave great head and the sex was ok too. You are thought of as having the most skills. As you, typed having it and enjoying it.