I find that I never have that problem since I learned how to really please women. Now I'm the one being harassed for sex even when they are on their periods.

ok here is another good example of how it works,
different personality types need/want different things.

So this book explains what they need/want and how they go about getting to it.
google books - Power Dating Games
"Power Dating Games: What's Important to Know About the Person You'll Marry" By Anne Hart
It lists the rational behind different tactics and styles.

If spouse is making you X they might be a X needing X:

Angry - the payoff is power
NT types goal is power thru acheivement

Annoyed, Frustrated, Tense - the payoff is attention
NF types goal is attention and intimite connection

Injured, Physically Hurt, Abused - the payoff is revenge
SP types goal is seeking revenge when betrayed or prevented from having enough play and fun in life. Revenge can be to you or your property.

Hopeless - the payoff is exemption from responsibility
SJ typs will exempt themselves from meeting your needs, making you feel hopeless. This stems from their love of work being a higher priority over romance. They give such a high priority to serving others at work that they feel worn out and want to be served when they get home. After courtship ends, the SJ isn't too romantic anymore, and more of a host to strangers. (I found this out the hard way, day after wedding the dating was over, time to work. Like flipping a light switch. Dexter )

I'm an ENFP and my wife is an ESTJ, good greif this is ironically true, my wife always says that I annoy her, and dang it if I don't feel hopeless in the way described in this book "Power Dating Games". Thanks Google for searching up this info for me.

Chapter 2 "why your partner calls you a loser" is about men who beat their wives & girlfriends, not really dating stuff, but stuff to avoid in dates i guess, I didn't read the whole book, but I don't know if the whole book is pertinent, but some of it is really good.

(03-22-2013 7:06 PM)as33156 Wrote:  I find that I never have that problem since I learned how to really please women. Now I'm the one being harassed for sex even when they are on their periods.

I don't know if I should be congratulating you or saying, "gross".

I know that my wife hits a crazy horny day right before the "MONTHLY VISITOR" comes. Unfortunately for me it is not due to my skill in "REALLY KNOWING" how to please a woman, and sometimes I end up saying "gross".

TMI i know TMI.