Sense of humor (70%)
Conversational skills (58%)
Looks (56%)
Height (28%)
Education level (21%)
Job title (20%)
Financial stability (16%)
Music choice (13%)
Mutual friends (9%)
Body shape (8%)

These are supposedly the top traits women look for in a partner, weighted (according to something lol).

My sense of humor and conversational skills are very strong, which may explain some of my success. Looks are somewhat ambiguous...I see men who are handsome and in great physical shape with women who are 6's at best, crudely speaking. However, I think looks also includes style, not just how physically attractive you are.

I am average height at 5'9", so I'm not short but I'm not tall. I think this matters more for tall women, but if you're 5'7" and under, I can see it being a "thing." My education level is bachelors degree, but I'm way "smarter" than that. In fact, I usually have to slow down my intellect to make connections.

My job title is sex educator, so while I'm not a supervisor or boss, there isn't a job title more intriguing. Financial stability is low, but I'm a lover, not a provider! The last 3 are whatever. I would lump them into rapport.

Just something to think about. The bar is so low for men right now...if you can have a decent conversation, and make them laugh a couple times (just a couple!) they'll damn near be soaking their panties. Especially if you're wearing pheromones!

What about drive, goal orientation and confidence, i Think those matter alot.

(07-14-2019 3:12 PM)Test.of.Sweden Wrote:  What about drive, goal orientation and confidence, i Think those matter alot.

I'm not supporting this as an 'official' list in any sense, it was just a curiosity. But drive can fall under education level, job title, and financial stability. Goal orientation is similar, but I would also include body shape. Confidence is shown through conversational skills and sense of humor. This isn't an exhaustive list, so save the 'what about x, y, and z." I expect members of this forum to take this in stride, not as an affront to everything they've ever learned.

I also have an aversion to arguing/debating about what women want with anyone, including women and other dudes. I'd rather fuck , so take what you will.

Actually it's trust.

Which kinda puts this hobby on shaky ground.

(07-14-2019 3:46 PM)MusikMan Wrote:  Actually it's trust.

Which kinda puts this hobby on shaky ground.

Shaky ground? LOL. Somebody knows how to read..unfortunately, I typed in English not Braille. Mark, how many trolls/idiots are members of this site?? It's hard not to flame people who lack basic reading comprehension skills.

I've got more women than pheromones you have in your arsenal, but please, contribute your awesome knowledge MusikMan. And that's all you get from me, so enjoy the attention while it lasts.

Reminds me of all the women magazines, where articles written by women, are telling women what men really want.

(07-14-2019 4:52 PM)RussianWolf Wrote:  Reminds me of all the women magazines, where articles written by women, are telling women what men really want.

It was data from a dating site, run by a dude. Not to say that what women say they want and actually want aren't different

(07-14-2019 4:59 PM)NikkiReloaded Wrote:  It was data from a dating site, run by a dude. Not to say that what women say they want and actually want aren't different

https://youtu.be/0xaQP_8ydBc

(07-14-2019 4:59 PM)NikkiReloaded Wrote:  It was data from a dating site, run by a dude. Not to say that what women say they want and actually want aren't different

Exactly. It's 10% logic vs. 90% emotion.
Which is why so many women say that they want a good, hard working, trustworthy guy. When they find one they often reject him then go hook up with some bum, then when they get burned, they complain that "all men are assholes". Rinse and repeat.....

(07-14-2019 5:34 PM)LoveInSpain Wrote:  Exactly. It's 10% logic vs. 90% emotion.
Which is why so many women say that they want a good, hard working, trustworthy guy. When they find one they often reject him then go hook up with some bum, then when they get burned, they complain that "all men are assholes". Rinse and repeat.....

FACTS!