(07-27-2019 5:16 PM)Dblr619 Wrote:  "Sense of humor (70%)...yadda, yadda

Not trying to impress/seek validation from works quite well for me.

This IS the MENS section.....correct?

On my first read I was going to reply that you sounding exactly like Nikki...I double checked and discovered that you merely put quotations around his initial rant, and then added two lines. So I apologize the crapola I was going to give you.

That being said, the list of what women want is not at all what they want. that is a list of bonus traits. One can list traits, attributes, and features all day long; and sure, that does indeed have something to do with attraction.

What women really want is somebody that makes them feel exactly how they wish to feel...same goes for us guys. All this other stuff is mere fluffy icing on the cake. It is unfortunate that humans tends to avoid the truth in their heart and soul and opt to go with surface reasons rather than the causal roots behind them.

Your submission of not seeking validation is part and parcel to how one makes the other feel; which is why it is effective. Nobody wants to think that they are so low that they can only attract the low-hanging types that constantly seek their approval.

And yes, this is, in deed, the Men's section. Real men have brains as well as brawn, and they exercise their intellect as much as they do their physical aspects. Knowledge is power, and if you know, you increase your power in the subject at hand; which is how to be more successful in life and ladies.

(07-29-2019 2:17 PM)Gladen Wrote:  On my first read I was going to reply that you sounding exactly like Nikki...I double checked and discovered that you merely put quotations around his initial rant, and then added two lines. So I apologize the crapola I was going to give you.

That being said, the list of what women want is not at all what they want. that is a list of bonus traits. One can list traits, attributes, and features all day long; and sure, that does indeed have something to do with attraction.

What women really want is somebody that makes them feel exactly how they wish to feel...same goes for us guys. All this other stuff is mere fluffy icing on the cake. It is unfortunate that humans tends to avoid the truth in their heart and soul and opt to go with surface reasons rather than the causal roots behind them.

Your submission of not seeking validation is part and parcel to how one makes the other feel; which is why it is effective. Nobody wants to think that they are so low that they can only attract the low-hanging types that constantly seek their approval.

And yes, this is, in deed, the Men's section. Real men have brains as well as brawn, and they exercise their intellect as much as they do their physical aspects. Knowledge is power, and if you know, you increase your power in the subject at hand; which is how to be more successful in life and ladies.

NR is a chick.....right?

(08-06-2019 1:07 PM)Dblr619 Wrote:  NR is a chick.....right?

If you're serious, then the answer is NO, he is most definitely of the masculine persuasion. That whole profile and the "Sex: Male" on all his post labels attest to that.

If you're being a


then you may consider yourself fed at my expense

(07-14-2019 3:03 PM)NikkiReloaded Wrote:  Sense of humor (70%)
Conversational skills (58%)
Looks (56%)
Height (28%)
Education level (21%)
Job title (20%)
Financial stability (16%)
Music choice (13%)
Mutual friends (9%)
Body shape (8%)

All completely subjective.

For:
Relationship? Or sex? The answer matters.

If sex, #1 simply?
If I want sex all that matters is do you appear to me like a guy (or gal) that can scratch my itch. Body shape goes significantly up because I need to believe you can put out and keep up.
I need to at least like you so a shitty personality is out, but since I'm not planning to have your baby, there's a lot of leniency...everything else is, meh. Job, friends, music, all that just doesn't matter. You're a ONS or potential fuck buddy.
We are being completely honest here right?

Relationship?
This is the EXTREMELY subjective part.
Moral character jumps to #1 for me. If your spiritual beliefs don't line up with mine that puts you off the relationship list for me. Period. If your moral character/spiritual beliefs are genuine, all the rest will fall into place.
Anything beyond that is all negotiable. To be fair, for me, sense of humor and conversation skill would definitely be up at the top %.

I don't know what most women look for. I can only answer for myself

Nutrix;

Do you mean that they must be of the same spiritual path as you for a relationship, or did you just mean sincere, compatible, and accepting and supportive of your spirituality?

(08-16-2019 12:05 PM)Gladen Wrote:  Nutrix;

Do you mean that they must be of the same spiritual path as you for a relationship, or did you just mean sincere, compatible, and accepting and supportive of your spirituality?

For myself, the same spiritual path
Without it there is a missing depth and understanding on a spiritual level that is absent both foundationally and for true mutual fulfillment relationally.

(08-06-2019 1:58 PM)Gladen Wrote:  If you're serious, then the answer is NO, he is most definitely of the masculine persuasion. That whole profile and the "Sex: Male" on all his post labels attest to that.

If you're being a


then you may consider yourself fed at my expense

I swear on p75 AND p96 that I wasn't trolling.
I was OBVIOUSLY trippin, mistakes were made....
My appy-pologies to all parties wronged.

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(08-06-2019 1:58 PM)Gladen Wrote:  If you're serious, then the answer is NO, he is most definitely of the masculine persuasion. That whole profile and the "Sex: Male" on all his post labels attest to that.

If you're being a


then you may consider yourself fed at my expense

I swear on p75 AND p96 that I wasn't trolling.
I was OBVIOUSLY trippin, mistakes were made....
My appy-pologies to all parties wronged.

(07-29-2019 2:17 PM)Gladen Wrote:  On my first read I was going to reply that you sounding exactly like Nikki...I double checked and discovered that you merely put quotations around his initial rant, and then added two lines. So I apologize the crapola I was going to give you.

That being said, the list of what women want is not at all what they want. that is a list of bonus traits. One can list traits, attributes, and features all day long; and sure, that does indeed have something to do with attraction.

What women really want is somebody that makes them feel exactly how they wish to feel...same goes for us guys. All this other stuff is mere fluffy icing on the cake. It is unfortunate that humans tends to avoid the truth in their heart and soul and opt to go with surface reasons rather than the causal roots behind them.

Your submission of not seeking validation is part and parcel to how one makes the other feel; which is why it is effective. Nobody wants to think that they are so low that they can only attract the low-hanging types that constantly seek their approval.

And yes, this is, in deed, the Men's section. Real men have brains as well as brawn, and they exercise their intellect as much as they do their physical aspects. Knowledge is power, and if you know, you increase your power in the subject at hand; which is how to be more successful in life and ladies.

EXTREMELY well thought out and written response and I agree.
Thank you, sincerely, for it.

I think we as males project what we feel/see is love on girls.
I ain't Wilt Chamberlain but I have extensive experience with girls and they just ain't that deep.
There really isnt much more there than what you see(which in itself is a manufactured/fake/enhanced visage).

I truly believe that if ever in life you are linking your personal value to what women think of you, you have become the lowest waste of life on earth...and will be treated as such by them.

I, along with almost every man at some point, have been that chump.
Instead of becoming incel rage woman haters club prez, I chose to learn and accept the truth.

(08-06-2019 1:58 PM)Gladen Wrote:  If you're serious, then the answer is NO, he is most definitely of the masculine persuasion. That whole profile and the "Sex: Male" on all his post labels attest to that.

If you're being a


then you may consider yourself fed at my expense

.....I may or may not have been in my cups and mix him with nutrix....?

(09-21-2019 8:57 PM)Dblr619 Wrote:  ...I have extensive experience with girls and they just ain't that deep.
There really isnt much more there than what you see(which in itself is a manufactured/fake/enhanced visage).

I must disagree with that statement (about ladies not being that deep,not your experience, of course) wholeheartedly. Knowledge, experience, and endless edification of the conclusion that women are deep, complex, and multi-faceted has shown that there is typically much more there than meets the eye. Quality women will not unmask themselves and lay themselves open and bare, and quite vulnerable, to just some random guy that knows a few lines. If you are just another NPC, you will never get to experience the rapture that is a full and complete lady. Most men fail at engaging all of the lady and will only ever see the shallow versions.


Regretfully, most guys most guys take an approach of enmity, choose to view ladies as lesser and more simple beings, or outright view them as childish inferiors. This causes a self-fulfilling cycle as like attracts like. The man that views women as simpletons hiding behind a fake image will only attract such ladies into their lives. This will buttress the original erroneous notion and continue the cycle. Women are artists with the bodies of porn stars and a PHD; if you know how to coax out the wonder that it all of them.