(07-15-2019 8:35 AM)NikkiReloaded Wrote: The obsession with debate and being contrarian here is why I'll stick to my journal. I don't care for it. I fuck women, not argue with people about what women want who can't even consistently get laid. It's not hostility, it's reality. You're all so rational here, what's the benefit of that?
I contribute things to help and give back to the forum. Maybe something in jest every once in a while. Anyone trying to argue with me may as well stop before they try and spend their time upping their game. If people want to rub sticks together and argue with the man holding a flamethrower about fire, be my guest. It will be one-sided.
Well, if that's how you want to play this...
First off, nobody was attempting to argue with you. A few other comments were made in support of your original text, and then a question was asked and (the way I read it) you came out guns a blazin' insulting and screaming trolls. then when I lightly commented on the attitude here of late (not just you, but several other members as well), you reverted into that "I fuck more women than you have 'mones so STFU...yadda yadda flamethrower" thing.
The benefit of open discussion, debate, and contrarian points of view is that the entire point of this place is to learn about pheromones, learn about life and ladies, and to HELP each other out. Open, free, public, discussion and debate is not only healthy for society, but it allows those that are just starting out to have a voice, to learn, and to grow as persons, and into excellent contributing members here.
Maybe I am totally off kilter here, but I thought the entire purpose of a free and open forum was to foster discussion, debate, and to share opinions.
The day you've closed your mind to the opinions of others, which seems to be today, is the day you've died inside. Don't forget the true words of wisdom: the Master also learns from the student. This means that as soon as one has decided that they are the know-all and end-all on any topic is exactly the time that their ego has overtaken their personal growth.
So yeah, cool, you have a flame thrower and some other guys just have sticks. Your lofty and condescending stance is amusing to the other guys on here that sit back quietly on their Nuclear Arsenal watching you. While you're screaming TROLL at everyone and demanding that they rise up to your standards; those others that remember your position, back when we just started to get a handle on things and were enjoying our first tastes of success, are amused at your posturing. While lots of these guys might be little puppies to your Doberman; to some others you come off as a a barking cub to our full-blown Lion.
And if you want to hurl antagonistic insults at the general membership here, pointedly directed at new members, keep in mind that there's always someone out there that is better than you. While you can honestly say that you are currently bagging more girls than most guys have pheromones in their stash; I've had the physical pleasure of being with more women than you've even met.
We all have different stations in life, in pheromones knowledge, and in interacting with women; but we all have the same dignity. The Golden Rule applies: treat others as you wish to be treated. If you insist on being antagonistic, you shall attract antipathy. If you treat others with honor and respect, and help them to grow as humans, men, and in life; then you shall be respected and honored.
Or, in short, be all Bill & Ted about it: Be excellent to each other; and party on dude!
Flame On!
Edited to add:
For those of you reading this, while my point of view here is counter to NikkiReloaded's, and my points here directly refute and respond to his writing; I do hold the man in the highest regard and was not attempting to point fingers or lash out towards him...although it probably came off that way. I appreciate what Nikki has to say, ponder it, and sometimes even learn a thing or two. I just don't agree with the attitude in which those kernels of truth and wisdom are given. One can demonstrate and contribute with being a negative Alphole.
I just felt that it needed to be shown, especially for the newer members here, that such vitriolic stances weren't shared by ALL the members here.
I've hurled my brunch under the bridge enough for today.