Hi, I don't post here often because my experience with Pheromones has been mixed and subtle. I got La Femme Mystere from Love Potion which didn't really seem to do anything so I forgot about it. A couple of months later I was getting interest in Alpha Dream's Glace because of the reviews, but decided to go with their Achar at the last moment. I know that has a very subtle cop blend in it. I have used it before sparingly with mixed reactions so I stopped using it for several months.

But here's what happened tonight...Could have been a lot of factors but here goes. I was going to a movie get-together with a fairly good platonic male friend and a lot of other people we didn't know terribly well. I have been experimenting with corsetting/waist training lately under my clothes and got a new corset so was wearing that. I don't believe the male friend had seen me while I was corsetting or while I was ever wearing Pheromones before. I have a large bust and the corset really makes it more noticeable while enhancing my figure. I was also wearing a fairly tight shirt which made the figure more noticeable. I applied one spray of Achar to a pad and lightly dabbed it on my wrists, chest, behind my ears, and rubbed it gently over my hair. Remember this is just one spray on a little pad, not even directly to my skin. I had just washed with a lightly scented soap, other than that no other scents.

Anyway, at the movie meetup, before watching the movie, I was sitting next to my male friend and talking to another man I didn't really know, but had seen at the meetups before and disliked. We started discussing a fairly innocuous topic - preference in phones. He mentioned his preference for Windows phones and asked if I could name one thing that it couldn't do, to which I replied some technical details regarding hacking my Android phone. I'm a software developer, and apparently he is too. He replied to this with something that came off as overly hostile but may have been intended as a joke, like, "Well, maybe you should stop being such a nerd!" I thought it was odd but I shrugged it off. Before I packed up to leave SEVERAL hours later, when the conversation was long dead, he found it necessary to say to me, "Have fun hacking your phone" in a sarcastic way.

On the car ride home, I asked my friend if he found this guy's behavior odd and he said that yes, it came off as so douchey/hostile that he almost told the guy off at the time. Here's where it gets interesting though: the friend mentioned, "Well, maybe it's because you were looking all hot or something, and he was feeling intimidating". I would count that as a big hit for him, because we are very platonic friends, and even mentioning my appearance like that seemed like a territory he wouldn't usually tread on. This particular hit could have been a combination of things though, because the corset and the shirt I was wearing was apparent to him.

Anyway though, I wonder what was happening with this other guy! I tend to intimidate men in general due to working as a software developer - many men will initially become very excited/attracted to me but soon after their interest will wane due to a competition thing kicking in and their attraction fizzling out to nothing because they can't handle the fact that I'm "smarter/geekier/better than them". I wonder if the guy became defensive because he was threatened by seeing an attractive woman challenging the limits of his skillset, or if he would have done that regardless of my appearance or even regardless of my gender? And especially what role would the Pheromones play in this scenario, would they heighten the tension? I know I have heard of women being catty with cops but not so with men! A few extra facts on the situation: I was sitting not terribly close to him, he was across from me on a chair - I don't know how far the cops would have traveled. This guy's wife was also in the room, but on the opposite side of the room, so I don't know what factor that would play into things with possible tension.

Sorry if this got long..I just thought it was a really interesting experience! I think I am going to start wearing Pheromones again more, because regardless of how it turns out, the end result (when something happens) is usually pretty interesting, even when it's not strictly positive. I'm having lunch with another male friend tomorrow which I had a hit on once with a phero blend (not achar, I believe a sample from Love Potion) and I'm going to the gym after that, so things should be interesting Thanks ladies (and gents)!

I reckon he was trying to 'game'(pua lingo) you . An attempted banter which he screwed up on.

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Maybe try phero's that focus on empathy? ( To make people less bitchy and feel less intimitated)

I agree with smile. He was most likely trying to game you but it backfired

Well, Achar is supposed to not be a dominating/intimidating blend as far as I know.

I still just can't figure things out. He showed no interest in me otherwise and was never going out of his way to talk to me, there was just some random conversation going on that I contributed to which is why I was even talking to him in the first place. And the fact that my male friend picked up on the hostile tone too...

True Love with cops in it totally ruined my life no joke. I was in live with this hardcore Christian polish girl who was a 10/10 virgin who believed she was a five and she really cared for me and we spent tons of time together. I know she loved me to and invited me to attend her church with her and would hug and hold hands with me.

I thought that trying mones would really seal the deal and help her break out of her shell. I got true love spiked with cops and met her at our local used book store/cafe and she acted the complete reverse how she usually acted and just stopped dealing with me and didn't contact me anymore until later this year via email asking how I was.

I hate cops!

Um, sorry, but you as a guy using cops on a female to attract her has absolutely nothing to do with this situation. And this is the women's board.

I find it highly unlikely/impossible that use of Pheromones or cops could ever make or break a relationship. The way you describe her, it sounds like you're maybe using "The Game" on women, which I think is completely degrading.

Hi PKitty,

The Pheromones may have worked, but he may have been trying to stop his true feelings from coming out.

I have had instances without mones where I have been attracted to someone and I thought they were attracted to me and the guy became hostile and tried to "put me in my place".

Since I am sensitive to humiliation and verbal abuse I beat tracks to get away from men like that.

Nix him and keep it moving.

Yes this is the womens forum, and men are welcome in this forum, just as the ladies are welcome to join in the mens forum!

Your response to as3 came across as rude and condescending and in my opinion was unwarranted.

And just so you know, yes copulins worn on a man CAN break a relationship.

(02-03-2013 5:17 PM)pkitty Wrote:  Um, sorry, but you as a guy using cops on a female to attract her has absolutely nothing to do with this situation. And this is the women's board.

I find it highly unlikely/impossible that use of Pheromones or cops could ever make or break a relationship. The way you describe her, it sounds like you're maybe using "The Game" on women, which I think is completely degrading.

To be fair, I'm still a little confused with the disconnect between the topic and as3's comment. It sounds like she, the polish girl, had the problem with you, as3, wearing cops, which I've read here before that some women react badly to this. How do you think pkitty's wearing cops and the negative reaction from this fella relates? If she was offended by him because he was wearing cops I would follow but I think I missed something??? Does it cause men to have negative reactions sometimes...because I haven't found that to happen to me personally. I've seen guys get nervous but not hostile

One more thing, if she was true to her beliefs and she was feeling powerfully attracted to you, it's entirely possible that she felt the safest thing for her to do to resist sexual temptation was to cut things off with you...so maybe it was your strong mojo and her beliefs that actually clashed, not the cops ^_~


Apologies for the momentary high jacking Miss k!

Miss kitty, since your guy in question was married, it could be some weird defense mechanism against women he finds attractive...grade school stuff for sure but I've seen it before. OR you could be right and he was just intimidated and then...still...the grade school thing. Either way, you're right, very interesting stuff! Great post