http://www.oceanusbrands.com/stimulating-lubricant.php

"G" Stimulating gel will enhance her experience. Just tell her it is lubricant (it is) or tell her nothing at all and see what happens. You can always remove the label to keep things a secret.

I've used this kind of thing before. They're not bad, make the area more sensitive and can feel pretty good. But I don't understand why you would not tell her about it. It produces a tingle or a hot/cold sensation that she is no doubt going to notice anyway, and could potentially get freaked out about if there seems to be no explanation - it's not a "natural" sensation. And in what world would you NOT want your girl to think you wanted to give her pleasure anyway?

Isn't the G spot a myth?

(08-21-2012 2:24 PM)Lexy Wrote:  Isn't the G spot a myth?

The studies that attempt to prove that women don't have a g spot are poorly done...then again some of the ones that were done to prove women have a g spot are poorly done also.

There was a study done where they were able to see an anatomical difference via ultrasound between the women who claimed to have a gspot and ones who didn't. Something about the tissue between the vagina and the urethra being thicker.

They also claim that roughly 40%-50% of women have it and that the size of the paraurethral is determined by genetics. So the sensitivity of that area will vary from female to female.

So what about those women claiming to have a g spot? Is it all in their heads? Some claim that women who believe they have a g spot don't have one because these women tend to be "extroverted, open to new experiences and so, easily aroused"


POSSIBLE TMI AHEAD


All I know is...from personal experience; the g spot exists. I'm not extroverted. And I'm not incredibly adventurous in the bedroom. In fact, I'm incredibly inexperienced. INCREDIBLY. But I have noticed recently upon discovering that spot, that like the clitoris, that area on the front vaginal wall, right under the clitoris does NOT like to be stimulated unless I'm fully aroused. Just like the clitoris. I haven't read up too much about the g spot, but I'm guessing it's somehow tied to the clitoris. I don't believe it's all in my head.

(08-20-2012 11:01 PM)Synergist Wrote:  I've used this kind of thing before. They're not bad, make the area more sensitive and can feel pretty good. But I don't understand why you would not tell her about it. It produces a tingle or a hot/cold sensation that she is no doubt going to notice anyway, and could potentially get freaked out about if there seems to be no explanation - it's not a "natural" sensation. And in what world would you NOT want your girl to think you wanted to give her pleasure anyway?

Synergist...I've never seen a bad reaction, but I concede the point that having a towel nearby is a practical precaution or you can tell the person if that is your choice. The idea behind not telling is that she should only associate that enhanced sensation with you. Hopefully, the next time you want to do something new, you reference that special sensation that can only be had with you and it helps break down new barriers.

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(08-21-2012 2:24 PM)Lexy Wrote:  Isn't the G spot a myth?

Not the spot...This increases blood flow to the clitoris and enhances the sensation. It can add to the intensity, but it is not for everyone.

(08-21-2012 4:18 PM)Merienda Wrote:  The studies that attempt to prove that women don't have a g spot are poorly done...then again some of the ones that were done to prove women have a g spot are poorly done also.

There was a study done where they were able to see an anatomical difference via ultrasound between the women who claimed to have a gspot and ones who didn't. Something about the tissue between the vagina and the urethra being thicker.

They also claim that roughly 40%-50% of women have it and that the size of the paraurethral is determined by genetics. So the sensitivity of that area will vary from female to female.

So what about those women claiming to have a g spot? Is it all in their heads? Some claim that women who believe they have a g spot don't have one because these women tend to be "extroverted, open to new experiences and so, easily aroused"


POSSIBLE TMI AHEAD


All I know is...from personal experience; the g spot exists. I'm not extroverted. And I'm not incredibly adventurous in the bedroom. In fact, I'm incredibly inexperienced. INCREDIBLY. But I have noticed recently upon discovering that spot, that like the clitoris, that area on the front vaginal wall, right under the clitoris does NOT like to be stimulated unless I'm fully aroused. Just like the clitoris. I haven't read up too much about the g spot, but I'm guessing it's somehow tied to the clitoris. I don't believe it's all in my head.

Here, here...I like the post. You should also read up on the Deep spot and the A spot. Some interesting stuff out there for those with open minds...who also like to open their legs.

(08-21-2012 2:24 PM)Lexy Wrote:  Isn't the G spot a myth?

Lol say what?? That's not my experience either lol

The clitoris actually extends a long way below the surface bulb that is accessible - like an iceberg beneath the water. As far as I understand it, the g-spot is a way of accessing a different part of the clitors, through the vagina wall. Personally - my own TMI alert here - I can orgasm using just my g-spot, but it is more difficult and not as satisfying. Say it's a 3/10. Clitoral orgasms might be a 7/10. Orgasms through both clitoris and g-spot stimulation are wonderful and somehow feel more "complete" - 10/10. I figure this is because using both is effectively stimulating a larger area of the clitoris, not just part of it.

(08-21-2012 5:55 PM)DarkLord1 Wrote:  Synergist...I've never seen a bad reaction, but I concede the point that having a towel nearby is a practical precaution or you can tell the person if that is your choice. The idea behind not telling is that she should only associate that enhanced sensation with you. Hopefully, the next time you want to do something new, you reference that special sensation that can only be had with you and it helps break down new barriers.

I agree with you there... but I'm just saying... if a guy I was with came home with a product designed ONLY to give me more pleasurable orgasms, then I'd be really touched by the gesture...

Im about to get a bit graphic bc thats just how I roll. I'm a bit of a whore but Im very good at what I do so read further at own risk..

Yes theres a G spot in women. I'll tell you exactly where it is. When a female is laying on her back it is about 1-2 inches on the front side of the vaginal top wall right behind the pubic mound. If you feel around on that top wall you will feel a slightly rough spot that is often slightly raised. Apply a bit of upward pressure with a slightly curled finger and massage. You can even use your other hand to gently press down on the lower abdomen right above the pubic bone for added stimulation.

Fun with the G spot: by thundr LOL

--Legs up and hips tilted upward. you can smash that thing to pieces. IME the further back the thighs the easier it is to hit.
--Finger and oral. use a finger to manipulate the G, press down with other hand on the lower belly and get to work on the clitoris with some mouth action. She will soak your face but it will be worth it.
--A high mount in the doggy can rub the G as well. Give her the reach around in conjunction and watch what happens.
--Often a woman riding the bull can find her own G and will increase the pressure her clit receives manually by either her own finger, or using your own pubic mound. Let her do this, it is a good thing.
--Spooning can get it too but you have to be very far up on her back and have only the first few inches in. Back and forth motion instead of up and down.
--Im not gonna get too much more involved in my treasure chest here. So onward..

The A spot: Waaaaay back in the vagina there is a huge cluster of nerves. Its now called the A spot. Some of us guys call it "bottoming out" and it often is followed with a caring question of "is that hurting you?" This spot is hard to hit on some girls as each girl's anatomy is different. Some vajays are deep and some are shallow. If you get the hammer far up in there and give a good back arch you can hit it. This drives girls nuts after a few strokes and after some time actually thickens the vaginal wall yet lubes it up. It is one of the holy grails for guys bc not all women know kegels and you can actually make them involuntarily kegel some. Keep the pace and this girl will be on your doorstep for weeks after.

The U spot: I dont really pay attention to this little thing much. It is claimed to be the female version of the male prostate. Kinda. This thing is located about a half inch into the vagina and near the urethra separated only by the vaginal wall. The reason I have no real interest in this spot is that if you are already going after the other 2 spots, slight upward pressure of your hammer will be hitting this thing anyway. Its good when you want to slow things down and "tip in" a few times but otherwise the U is not very interesting to me. The other spots cause much more reaction and provide much better results.

I am saying *nothing* to Thundr's post. I'm just smiling to myself.....

Off to get another Diet Coke Zero...Women every where just thanked you for your service dear heart....