An interesting connection this all reminded me of. There has been times in my life where I didn't need to molest myself, sometimes over a year due to the nature of the female company around... The dreams I would have were crazy...

I'd have the same sort of dreams if I took a supplement called Damiana. Which I happened to read the other day may support peinal gland production of DMT. Another source said that its beautifying for the skin....

This is all speculative on my part but I'm thinking that by doing whatever you can to keep your hormonal levels high you're in turn booting your bodies ability to be powerfull or 'spiritual' by literally retaining its energy.

Its probably your boosted aura that women are picking up on in regards to peoples references to having women around when not jerking off or something along those lines.

I think it all connections to your ability to sleep and dream...

its been 2 days now with no sticky tissue/rag, feeling a bit better now, wanna do a bit more. giving myself a bit of "weening off" phase.
Rules:
can touch but no big O/jizz. and only if its a pic of my GF / phone sex.
but i havent touched myself yet today, so im proud of me! yeah i know its is fapping if your anal about it, but imo the jizzin' part that is the major problem.


@bored4life:


but seriously, it happens don't beat yourself up about it. and it was to a women you know, and not porn.
its abut getting back up that counts not how many times you fall down.
im jelly, my girl is a nun when it comes to any pictures , let alone sexy ones
any help guys?

*Puts on flame suit*

Not planning on quitting fapping.

Just wondering though, what happens if you fap and fuck a girl regularly?

(02-08-2013 8:30 PM)DGamer Wrote:  *Puts on flame suit*

Not planning on quitting fapping.

Just wondering though, what happens if you fap and fuck a girl regularly?

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.11...677.x/full

That's an interesting scientific article to read, albeit potentially controversial in some aspects as it goes deeper into the pros and cons of it.

Fapping causes depression, psychological problems, poor performance, blood pressure problems as well as other issues. And this counts for girls too, not just guys as that article points out.

Basically, if you are by yourself, do not do it.

Quote:Ah man such great conversation in this thread. Hey guys that Porn addiction sub that As3 posted a link to is in the subs that Buzzy so generously added. He bought that one as part of the collection.

For those interested, i recently uploaded them to new (faster/easier) webspace.
The ones that could be of use:

Learning Self Discipline Subliminal MP3 Album
End Porn Addiction Subliminal MP3 Album

Links are in my journal.. Let us know if they help ;-)

(02-08-2013 7:39 PM)solidprice Wrote:  but seriously, it happens don't beat yourself up about it. and it was to a women you know, and not porn.
its abut getting back up that counts not how many times you fall down.
im jelly, my girl is a nun when it comes to any pictures , let alone sexy ones
any help guys?

Lol, if she ever says anything sexy or anything intimate just kind of be like, let me see. it's worked wonders with me.

"I'm going to take a shower" ... "let me see"
"I just got out of the shower" ... "let me see"
"I'm about to change" .. "let me see"

I know it may not be the best approach, but hey, it works.. lol

(02-08-2013 10:44 PM)bored4life Wrote:  Lol, if she ever says anything sexy or anything intimate just kind of be like, let me see. it's worked wonders with me.

"I'm going to take a shower" ... "let me see"
"I just got out of the shower" ... "let me see"
"I'm about to change" .. "let me see"

I know it may not be the best approach, but hey, it works.. lol

i know these kind of things take a while, but thanks ill try it.
funny thing is ill be happy with just any sexy pic clothes or not
but as they say, "less is more":D

(02-08-2013 7:39 PM)solidprice Wrote:  its been 2 days now with no sticky tissue/rag, feeling a bit better now, wanna do a bit more. giving myself a bit of "weening off" phase.
Rules:
can touch but no big O/jizz. and only if its a pic of my GF / phone sex.
but i havent touched myself yet today, so im proud of me! yeah i know its is fapping if your anal about it, but imo the jizzin' part that is the major problem.


@bored4life:


but seriously, it happens don't beat yourself up about it. and it was to a women you know, and not porn.
its abut getting back up that counts not how many times you fall down.
im jelly, my girl is a nun when it comes to any pictures , let alone sexy ones
any help guys?

Help you ask? New Pheromone Additive

so i've been reading a little bit about tantra yogas n whatnot, using focused breathe to "cycle" sexual energies into the whole body (uplifting yourself energetically or whatever that means). Found a few threads on different forums for techniques and whatnot, I havent gathered enough information to post anything really useful as of yet. However it does seem there is a lot to this whole tantra deal in regards to

1. spiritual ascension (or however you want to phrase it) by withholdng and "transmuting" sexual energy into your "ki" by using focused breathing (otherwise known as qi gong or pranayama)

2. having crazy mindblowing orgasms, multiple orgasms, whole body orgasms. Apparently achieved through mastering muscles in / around your junk (this part still confuses me, but apparently you can achieve a ejaculation without semen being released, allowing for multiple orgasms / super intense ones etc.)

I wish i had more information to share, but maybe this little teaser of a post will inspire someone to dive a little deeper. Im sure theres lots of books out there on the topic.


edit: posted this here because i figured if everyone is quitting fapping, why not take it a step further and make it that much more useful.

I've never been a fan of religious exercises that promise things like whole body orgasms. Wilhelm Reich and Roger Vittoz were two people who have suggested ways to help people experience whole body orgasms, but the difference between them and most religions is they tried to back up their ideas with reason.