(11-14-2018 10:50 AM)Gladen Wrote: Or else it gets the hose again
Lol, noice.
Ok, I am not fully certain I should respond now, but also....why not...
Starting with self effects. Basically the whole night I have been in a casual mode, from the moment I put on TLG, there has been a DILLIGAF feeling take over me. I tried as strong as I could, but did my best not to pay attention to TLG at all(as per introductions),
But as the first application, it may be the most self effects I have noticed yet..... OR... I also barely drink alcohol, and I did tonight, so am uncertain if this tainted results.
As to friends boyfriends, quiet band members, bands family. The only person I saw less interested was my friends mother, however I had stronger and deeper conversations with everyone else I spoke to. One person who is my friends hairdresser, who usually gives me shit for my Shiite blonde fringe(I did while high with another friend) actually complimented me on my hair. I should probably mention I did get a lot of out of the ordinary compliments tonight.
I always struggle to work out what is hits, because mone free I do get a lot of hits most people may not.
But in saying all of this, there was a wild card I did not plan on... basically my friend in a band is a model... most people would class her 10/10, but I have no idea, but I have always friend zoned her... I am basically a fat Hemsworth brother, so not hideous, but really shouldn’t pick and choose. Well... tonight I honestly am gobsmacked. My friend has a model/actress friend, who I have met before, who I always pictured out of my league. Not only did she follow every word I said, I number closed with ease.
Note I feel there is a good chance I will mess this up from here, but honestly I didn’t even think I would get this far with her.
I paid her basically no attention all night, and while we floated in and out of conversation, she did back me up on most of the topics we discussed with other people.
I have an idea how to escalate this through messages, but honestly happy to even be in the game.
Oh, I should probably also mention the real spanner in the works tonight... my friend created this band, but had to fire two of the band members. They both decided to rock up tonight. One made a scene on the first song, so I spoke to my friends BF who said they were causing a scene outside(there was an open space between a walkway and basically the whole bar area).
I didn’t want shit happening at my friends event, so I walked out and tried to talk to the people causing shit(apparently about half a dozen people).
I have no idea if TLG was in play, or if the fact I am 130kg 6ft 2in dude walking up to them asking them to move along was all it needed. All I know is from then on basically everyone left inside was congratulating me. I honestly felt I did nothing, but I was treated like a big deal by pretty much everyone.
So... a lot of what happened tonight I feel may be other people’s reactions to how I behaved from the self effects.
However, if the actress lady takes me up on my escalation, I feel TLG may be at play. We have met once before, but literally only enough to see each other tonight and do the... you look familiar dance.
Also, I’m very drunk right now...but at least you get an honest review