(11-16-2018 3:30 PM)Gladen Wrote: For all but @SnoopyAce....
You posted in my journal about your Love Godian exploits,today, and quickly getting Stalker-Syndrome. Care to give any details (how good of a friend, how long of exposure, first time, etc) as well as give the text-then-immediately-call time frame so we can learn how quick the imprinting and stalking begins?
Was this directed at me Gladen? I only ask, because you had me scanning through threads and PMs, to realise the discussion was on this thread and not your journal.
As to how good of friends, I have known her for about 4 years, I would say reasonably close. She is very busy, and so our interactions are very sporadic, however as she works at her mums’s dog walking business, on top of modelling and trying to get her band up and running, I used to join her sometimes on the walks so we could catch up.
She has lost a lot of friends since she works most weekends, so misses out on a lot of people’s big events, which annoyed people and they have all drifted away. As I put the effort into catching up, and am indifferent to when people show up, we have gotten reasonably close.
Now as mentioned, when entering the event I ran up and gave her a big hug, which may have started the mone interactions. But barely spoke after that, besides debating with her about how much my interaction with her disgruntled band mate actually having any effect on getting him to fob off, and at the end of the night telling her to block the dudes on social media, and then across the car park, screaming out she has to help me with a project I want to work on. I was being rather cocky, but besides the fact she is busy, and we would struggle to match up a time, I have no doubt she will do this, but her BF was the one pushing for it anyway.
Now since then, she messaged me yesterday morning, apologising for not hanging out on the night, and saying we need to catch up soon where I can be all hers, while not specifically a hit, she is also the one who taught me about using language to attract women, so she is conscience of the flirtation nature of language, then this morning she messaged to get my opinion on how the night went. Once again, not a definitive hit, but our communication is usually much more sporadic than it has been. While I don’t remember her being so deferring to my opinion on this matter. Like in other stuff sure, but music and events, much less so, it is usually a did you have fun? Not a, did it go well?
I have never understood our friendship, and have told her this often, we literally have nothing in common besides drunken crazy fun, and I think we have been drunk together maybe 4 times in our friendship, and I have so much more in common with some of her friends, and yet we are the ones who are closer.
As hard as it appears to be possible, was there anything you think I missed Gladen?
So while it is feasible she got hit from a few exposures through the night, it is just as possible that her bf who I spent the majority of the night with, may be the one pushing the thought of me into her brain. I know for a fact they have been speaking about me together. There is definitely an friendly alpha male aspect to TLG(or as has been discussed, I am a friendly alpha, and it just made me even more so, TLG magnifying what is already there)